6. Responsive: God gave, “whosoever” is responsive to a definitive love will not perish, but have eternal life and that means uninterrupted love experience. Be responsive, it makes you a responsible lover; one readily available to provide answers and bring solution to the need of people. An example of a responsive person is someone who is always there when her friends need help. Your love will be threatened if you are irresponsive to answers and solutions to human life generally. If I am providing love, by definitive attraction, it has to be complemented. 7. Instructive: life is about direction, so love should have a given template, else hearts will only lust, lost and lose essence. Love brings direction, a template to your destination in life. For example, a n instructive text is a text that instructs or tells you how to do something; a medical procedure instructs you on how to get a ...