Proverb
19:18: “Chasten thy son while there is hope, and let
not thy soul spare for his crying.” Proverb
22:15: “Foolishness is bound in the heart of a child; but the rod of
correction shall drive it far from him.” Proverb
23:13-14: “Withhold not correction from the child: for if thou
beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.
TRAIN UP A CHILD: The 7 Prophetic Templates for Parents-Would be Parents, Guardians and Custodian. PT 1-3 featured are follows;
(1). Children are Heritages/Legacies from the Lord,
(2)They
are Rewards/Gifts to Humanity,
(3) “Train Up A Child” You have a prophetic
responsibility,
(4)“In The Way”: Every Child has a Prototype and Direction,
(5) “He
should GO”,
(6) “When he is old” Every Child Will Grow,
(7) Every Child is a trust to
Parent and Custodian.
Kindly search for the PT1-3 and read the details of the message, its so inspiring and helpful for the UP TRAINING of the 21st century child, all the templates are drawn from Scriptural revelation and the way God designed it for us to follow.
TRAIN UP A CHILD PT4: Prophetic Ways To Discipline A Child: "Sparing the rod" in that sense, means that a parent must guide his or
her child and teach the child right from wrong; it’s as simple
as that. In prophetic reality, nowhere in the New Testament does Jesus tell parents to use
corporal punishment as panacea for correcting or training a child. Spanking is not discipline; it does not teach a child how to be a better person.
Ø TALK NOT SPANK: If you must spank, talk first, do 90% talking, 5% body
communication or language, then 5% spank must be the last thing. Talk to them
often and talk with them at every point they miss it. Don’t attempt to overlook
their mistakes and never be too tired or discouraged to come to their aids when
they need you.
Ø GO SPIRITUAL: Pray, pray with them and pray about everything, pray and
be a prayerful parent because also they will emulate. They imitate you more
than you try to educate them. This must be a non-negotiable culture, day, noon
and night, breakfast, lunch and dinner with Biblical references to everything
which makes engagements intentional.
Ø HEALTH & HYGIENE: please, have a zero tolerant policy towards
their health and hygiene; this to you should be EVERYTHING. Beginning with you.
You have to take the lead and ensure you provide a clean-clean environment,
everywhere and everything must be sparkling clean for them to dwell in.
Secondly, make handwashing habits for them, even before they eat anything and
at all time. Thirdly, ensure they drink the very best of bottle water or clean
water dispenser. I insist my royals drink Nestle Zinc. alternatively C-Way bottle water full stop. The best way to keep
them sick free are; clean environment, safe and clean water, home made food in the most clean environment and watching over them closely.
Ø GETTING A SCHOOL? Go to God in prayers before getting a school for
them and same approach must apply when choosing your clinic or medics. I am also
aware you have the financial resources and can afford any worth of education
for your child, but sort it out with God by prayers. Do not assume the
availability of money can make the best education available, that can be the
trick of the enemy, you must take prophetic responsibility to pray, brood over
schools, research and source information as to the spiritual foundations and
belief of the school. This is being prophetic and not religious. Be
passionately spiritual about this realities and the Lord will bless your
efforts towards raising them up in Jesus name Amen.
Ø BE
SENSITIVE: Remember you are raising a small adult; don’t underrate this
reality. When Jesus said to her parent, “Don’t you know I must be about my
Father’s business”? This is the case with many parents, even when their child
is grown, most cannot read the lines. You must have a future consciousness of
your child as a parent.
Ø COACH/MODEL
THEM YOURSELF: Always remember they are relying on you: never ever shift the
responsibility to anyone else, don’t ever do it, and don’t do it. Be their very
best coach, be their mentor and role model until they become one to many.
Ø LET THEM OPEN UP: Encourage questions and engage them in prophetic
conversations. Neriah will always have a question to ask and in at least every
hour and I awlays look forward to her questions whether or not they make sense.
A
child becomes better mentally and evolves to creative and constructive think
tank when you encourage questions and productive and educative discussions.
There must be Biblical response and approach to the barrage of questions their
peers throw at them. You have to be prophetic to prepare them for real task
ahead. So, if you lack what it takes, go get equipped is what I am saying here,
Train Up! This is never going to be the school’s job, nor the children teacher
in your Church, not their grandma or grandpa, no and no again, not anyone else,
but you. If you are trained down, the child shouldn’t be trained down with you
also, that will be the greatest abuse of grace as a parent. School or society
must not be the ones to teach your child Evolution, Sexual Ethics, Naturalism,
Pluralism, Atheism etc. Be the discipline maker, make them your disciples, be
the lead teacher and educator, do not give to the Church even, do it and give
them back to teach the Church and the world the prophetic cultures.
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Kindly own up your will and your ways if you would love to give your life to
Christ. The topic treated here is a function and fruit of the Holy Spirit.
Say this prayer after
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WRITE MY NAME IN THE BOOK OF LIFE. THANK YOU JESUS FOR SAVING ME. AMEN.
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The biggest issue we have in the society today, Children are raised with nonchalant attitude when it comes to spiritual aspect of life and for that reason they grow in a worldly way; ignorant of spiritual things, no fear of God. If only we can start from the grass root, the same way we care for them in physical things, let's even put more effort in spiritual things of God because spirituality is freedom but the truth is that the parents needs to be taught of who God is as a spirit in his word first , because a man cannot give what he does not have in him.
ReplyDeleteYou are very correct my prince, most parent don't seems to deserve the children in their care in terms of knowledge, understanding and the required values and attitude for the 21st century child. In my Part 3, i suggest that parents must go .trainings to enable them fit in to "Train Up A Child In The Way"
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